Saturday, May 19, 2012

INSECURITY = NO RELATIONSHIP

A friend introduced me to her newly found boyfriend some months ago as the love of her life and her heartbeat etc… As time passed she complained to me about her feelings for him and she wasn’t sure if he was the one. After that, she would be all in love again and finding it hard to go through a day without seeing him. She asked me what I thought and I told her that she was CONFUSED.


 Now the latest is she sending me a BBM to ask me when last have I spoken to her boyfriend which honestly, it has been awhile when all 3 of us met up somewhere. Her next question was if I knew where he was. “How would I know where YOUR man is?” I asked her. Her response which got me thinking was, ‘it seems like you 2 talk when am not around so I thought you would be the next best person to ask’


 Now seriously?? Is she implying that I am with her man? This coming from a girl who searches her man’s phone when he is sleeping, listen all his phone conversations and made it known very clearly that she hates his female friends, unless they are also her friends. This girl is downright INSECURE!!! 


 Listen ladies, insecurity is not attractive, not cute and definitely not protective. Being insecure is annoying and will lead to the failure of your relationship. Your man needs space, it’s called his PERSONAL SPACE. He should not have to ask for it. If he does, it’s because he is starting to feel crowded.


Men need to be left alone at times because they have their moods too….just like women. They may not be experiencing menstruation but they get moody at times. TOO MUCH OF ONE THING ISN’T GOOD!!! 


Another point, ladies if you think another woman is with your man you need to approach and question your man FIRST!! 


Solution to this unnecessary problem:
ADMIT YOUR FLAW AND BE A BETTER GIRLFRIEND!! IT HELPS TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE INSECURE!!!

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